Whether you are planning to go solo or incorporate it into your love play with a partner, using your vibrator for the first time can be a sensual and revealing experience. Setting the right mood is as important as the device itself and ensures you get the most out of this time. A vibrator like the New Wave comes with a number of different settings and vibration speeds which means you want plenty of opportunity to explore the possibilities on offer.
Make Sure You Have Enough Time
Choose a time when you are not likely to be disturbed and can devote your full attention to this period of love play. A quickie can be exciting and exhilarating in the right circumstances but here you really want to give yourself over to exploration and pleasure. Switch off the phone, close the curtains and lock the door before settling down.
Setting the Mood Properly
Have a glass of wine if you want, turn up the heating, light some scented candles, put on some of your favourite music and lie on the bed with your vibrator. We all have our own particular triggers for relaxing into sexual experiences so choose whatever gets you excited.
Start the Old Fashioned Way
It’s always a good idea to begin warming up those erogenous areas with your fingers rather than starting straight away with the vibrator. If it’s been a while since you did this kind of thing, then take this moment to acquaint yourself again with all those pleasurable areas.
Explore your Vibrator
Pick up your vibrator and use the manual buttons to move though the different modes and see how they feel in your hand. Don’t feel that you have to rush straight to the vulva but see how the different modes work on other parts of your body such as the inner thighs and breasts.
First Contact
On the lowest setting move to your more responsive areas and see how this feels, perhaps combining both manual and vibrator touches. Work around the region of your clitoris and note the difference between the vibrator and normal skin on skin stimulation. Change the speed or vibration mode if you like and explore how this works.
Going Further with your Vibrator
Many women will find the simple external stimulation of the clitoris enough to reach a climax but you may now want to move towards inserting the vibrator into the vagina and locating the G spot.
Enjoying your Vibrator with a Partner
Many couples love to include something like a vibrator into their sexual play and it can be a way for both to explore deeper sensations together. Allowing a partner to take over control of the vibrator can add a new level of erotic pleasure and lead to stronger physical responses as those important erogenous zones are fully and slowly explore. If penetration is desired, the female can also use the vibrator to emphasise the thrusting movement of the penis and further stimulate the clitoral area.
The touch, feel and stimulation of a deluxe vibrator such as the New Wave is intended to help you explore your body more fully and reach new heights of passion. Whether you are having a moment to yourself or exploring new erotic experiences with a partner, it’s the perfect tool for helping you reach a more intense orgasm.
